it sounds like it has been really good to get things out into the open, to let it all out and be completely honest. Don't people say that the first year of marriage is always the hardest and if you can survive that, you should be right. It sounds like you and DH have different coping strategies for stressful events. My DH and I are the same, but we do talk about it so it works OK, even if I don't like it, I do understand that he can't be like me. Hope you are enjoying the new calm you have in the house. Hope that awful burny wee has left you too, it's not much fun.

I am going to go and jump into bed. We lashed out and bought a new one and it is soooooo good! Chat soon.