My sister did put SB after Phoebe's name on the form, which is why it was so upsetting for her I think. She did well telling us all today, and showing us the birth certificate without getting all teary and upset, because I sure as hell would have if it had been me in her place!!

I offered to ring the BD & M people to tear strips off them for her because I wouldn't get as emotionally drained from doing it as she would IYKWIM?