Hi Divvy,

Im so very sorry to hear about the loss of your baby.

I lost my first child, a daughter whom we called Katelyn at 18 weeks in March this year. I am now 24 weeks pregnant with my second child.

I can only speak for myself but i personally found Katelyn's due date extremely hard. So i understand how you are feeling today.

This is only my experience but I cant really say that the grief of losing Katelyn gets easier because i still feel so incredibly hurt that her life was taken so quickly from us. However i have found that the more time passes i manage to deal with life better and manage day to day better than i have a few months ago. Of course i still have extremely sad days and i think about Katelyn every single day. I dont think that we will ever forget our precious babies but i do feel as though i am slowly finding a way of fitting Katelyn into our family and also my future. Therefore i guess that i find getting through the days much easier.

Well my heart goes out to you and your family today. Keep coming around and chatting to the girls here, you will find a very supportive bunch of women.

I am here if you want to talk.

Love Sarah