Can you please help me understand?

[Beach Mama]

Oh Dan I can't imagine how hurt you must be, especially seeing as we know what a gorgeous woman you are who wanted to cause your sister as little pain as possible hun. The other girls have given you loads of advice hun and I don't really have any other than to suggest talking to your sister? I am a talker so I don't know if this is way off the mark and maybe not even possible at this point in the the grieving process. As for your parents, I would be point blank telling your mum how hurt you are, how you hope they will be a part of your kids lives and deal as graciously as you have been. Wish I could wrap you up in a big real ...Any trips for Melbs planned soon? You know where I live Thinking of you darls. xoxox

[Babyluv]

Oh my gosh Hun,
I can't believe you are going through this. You are not selfish at all. Your mum is being so unreasonable. Like you said you were ttc before any of this happened. You can't put your life on hold because of what other people are going through. Who knows what could happen. It could be years before your sis ttc or falls pregnant again. I don't know what you can do, sorry i'm no help but this is just so unfair on you and your bubba. You should be enjoying this special time. Maybe you need to stop trying for now with your mum. Do things that make you happy, spend lot's of time with your gorgeous family. You unfortunately can't change the way people are and I am sure your mum is really going to regret the way she is treating you. Tell her how much she is hurting you and that enough is enough, I don't understand how you have hurt them!!! You are having a baby, how precious, there is nothing you should feel guilty about. Don't hide your bump. Be proud for your bubba. I really hope that your family see the light and apologise to you. I hope they can accept your pregnancy and make things right xxx

[Heaven]

Oh Unfortunately I know just how you feel