thread: Coping with pregnant friends after a MC

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  1. #4
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    Jun 2009
    Geelong
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    Hey hun,

    I can sympathise with you. I have lost 9 little angels, and in that time i was always surrounded by pregnant friends often due within weeks of my original date as well. I would love to say I found it gets easier but i found i had to step back from them for a while. The really good friends understood and knew why i couldnt spend as much time with them while i grieved. I am now 20 weeks preg with our first little miracle baby and in this pregnancy 2 of these friends of mine have now had miscarriages. I try hard to give them the space they need and don't mention my pregnancy unless they bring it up.

    Every person deals with their loss differently and you may feel more willing to spend time with your friends sooner than I did.

    I
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