Emmy I'm so sorry to hear of all you've been through. I'm so grateful to you for sharing your experiences with me, for what it's worth it has made me feel less alone.
I can't imagine what you must have gone through at work - I'm sure you and your husband are incredibly deserving. All the best for future ttc. While I am so incredibly impatient for this nightmare to be a part of my past so I can ttc again, as I"m sure you are, I know that once that little one comes I won't care how long it took to create them, and I hope that it true for you as well, eventually.
Thanks Sammyjane and Townsvillegirl for taking the time to read and your kind words as well.
Jellybrush I too feel that when I have my baby that the time I have spent trying and all the heartache that has followed will be nothing but a fuzzy distant memory. Seems so hard now but I do believe that it will happen for both of us just the time thing I don't know.
I got my AF today. It was a major woohoo as its one step closer to my dye studies to know if the remaining tube is open and trying to concieve again. So two more to go and hopefully I am back in action lol
firstly I am deeply sorry for your and your dh loss.... I too have had a ruptured ectopic in Aug 2006 and I lost my right tube and nearly my life.... I too understand the pain you are experiencing after ttc for a period of time ...... please please give yourself and DH time to greive, getting annoyed, yell and cry it is all part of your healing process... The physical pain is also unbearable - I developed an infection in my scar and it spilt open slighty - which I found hard to cope with onto of everything else!!! Boy did I hate the world and people who would say oh it wasn't meant to be.... why do people say such things???? sorry off the track there......
For DH - maybe you could both create a specail box for your angel? Something you share together or plant a rose or something.....I planted a special flower for our angel and made box (took me a long time to do)....
For risk factors - I took was told it was something that happens to women about 4% ???
BUT BUT - We went on and ttc and had an amazing little man - Aiden who is 2 and we are expecting our 2nd anyday and we are in our 30's......... and yes both pregnancy have been scary - but well worth the fear ......
Hun we are here for you anythime and sending you big big hugs xxxx
and some support.
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