Dear Counting Days,

I am sorry that you don't have the support of family and friends. Truthfully I think you only truly have sympathy is you have gone through this yourself. People try to be understanding but always sedem to fall short. At least you know we all know what you are going through.
One day at a time seems to be my best approach I have learned that I don't want to live to far in the future it only causes stress as we all know things don't always go the way you intended.

I have a question for any of you. I had a terrible night last night. I have had a dull ache in my left side for weeks leading up to ectopic diagnosis which is ironically on the opposite side of my ectopic. Last night I had terrible tightness and cramping in my lower abs. I never went to the doctors because there wasn't more bleeding then normal. The more I think about the pain I think it might be eith a kidney stone or a UTI. Did any of you experience anything like this? I am going to the early pregnancy clinic tomorrow for follow up on HCG levels and thought I would check with them and if they can't help I could go to emerg in the hospital. The pain is much less today. Still uncomfortable to pee. Tummy is not sore to the touch it just feels heavy. One thing after another it seems. Good thing I am on holidays this week. Oh well if anyone can relate I would love to hear back.