Dear Rachel,

I am so very sorry for your loss of Katy, thank you for sharing her little life with me. Did your DR. completely disregard the methotrexate as well? I'm beginning to think that there are a lot of us out there who have not made it to the "list" so to speak and the manufactures of this horrible drug will never face up to what they knowingly are doing to our children. I don't know how or what, but I think if enough of us mothers find each other then we should do something. They need to be held accountable, but more than that they need to properly explain how long the drug will affect our eggs, and it should never be used for terminating a pregnancy. Yes it is effective, but the women given it for tubal pregnancies are generally trying for children and should not be placed in the situation of having to wait a considerable amount of time before trying again. Our breaking hearts should not be placed in that situation.
I can see by your post that you are expecting very soon, congratulations! I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy and a quick and (mostly) painless delivery. Please feel free to contact me directly for anything. Mommy2Koen@yahoo.com
-Susan