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thread: Ergh

  1. #19
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  2. #20
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    It's totally normal to feel like this hun, like everyone said there is no right or wrong way to feel. Huge hugs we'll be thinking of you tomorrow

  3. #21
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    it's ok to be feeling like that hun and more for tomorrow.

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    I don't know if this is the right place to say this, but this poem I think says it:

    "yet if you should forget for a while
    and afterwards remember do not grieve
    for if the darkness and corruption leave
    a last vistige of the thoughts I had
    better by far you should forget and smile
    than remember and be sad"

    Thinking of you tomorrow.

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  6. #24
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    Sounds like very normal feelings

    Sending you lots of love and will be thinking of you tomorrow Ahurani, I hope tomorrow is not too hard for you and a beautiful day as a tribute for your beautiful Hayley

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  8. #26
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    I think you what you are feeling is a totally normal reaction. After losing two little angels recently I have the same thought, that I just want to be pregnant again, infact, my obs said to me pretty much word for word that he thinks the biggest healing after going through such grief isn't until you hold your newborn baby, and until that happens you're going not going to feel at peace. I don't know you at all but I've been thinking about you alot and shed tears for your loss, I hope that you find some inner strength for tomorrow, I will be thinking of you and your beautiful Hayley xox

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  10. #28
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    Thinking of you darling girl and sending love

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  14. #32
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    Been thinking of you. Don't beat yourself up for wanting to be pregnant. It's ok to want that, in fact i think it is a totally normal and understandable thought process. You'll be in my thoughts tomorrow.

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    It's normal. I felt like that even before we turned off her life support, I hated myself. I knew I'd never replace her, just wanted that little piece of happiness back.
    Hugs

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    Youre a mumma without a baby to hold. Whilst your heart is full of love for Hayley your arms are so sadly empty. Your want to be pregnant again makes perfect sense to me!

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    xx

  18. #36
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    Youre a mumma without a baby to hold. Whilst your heart is full of love for Hayley your arms are so sadly empty. Your want to be pregnant again makes perfect sense to me!
    ^^ absolutely.

    I hope you are ok today. x

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