Ergh

[Ahurani]

So tomorrow is the funeral I should be thinking of that right?

BUT

All I can think about is desperately wanting to be pregnant again she isn't even cremated and it's what I'm thinking about. I dunno maybe it's a good thing I'm trying to look forward but I feel **** for thinking it.

No need to reply just airing thoughts

[Emma09]

Hun- there is no right or wrong way for you to feel at the moment....
Big hugs


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[indie24]

[Beach Mama]

hun absolutely normal. Many women feel like this after having a baby, you have been through something SO traumatic and heartbreaking, of course it is natural to want to go back to what was once a time of so much anticipation and hope.
Thinking of you tomorrow xoxoxo

[starangelk]

[Blixie]

Emma09
Hun- there is no right or wrong way for you to feel at the moment....
Big hugs

Exactly
I have never been though what you are going through but honestly there is no set way to react in my opinion. Everyone deals with things differently Your bubby is beautiful

[*Sparklez*]

[mummydreamer]

in exactly the same boat!! talking to DH last night i was saying how i don't want to replace J, but i want another baby.....and he was saying he understands, but he's not there yet, he's not ready to think about that....which made me feel bad (not his fault) because i was thinking about another baby.....gah it's so hard!!!

i wish i could say something that make you feel better, or that would make all of us feel better.........all i can say is im here for you if you need to talk or need to ask anything.....massive to you, and really hope it goes well tomorrow. you will be in my thoughts, and i hope you have a lovely goodbye service for your beautiful Hayle May xoxoxoxoxox

[~me~]

[tellytubby]

Hun- there is no right or wrong way for you to feel at the moment....

Well said. Sending you love and strength for tomorrow

[TeniBear]

I felt the same way Its perfectly normal.


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[Beautiful Disaster]

Ahurani. You can't help but feel what you feel & want what you want. FWIW I think it's a really positive & encouraging thing to be planning for the future already. I know that you will grieve Hayley for the rest of your life, so don't feel guilty that you should be thinking of ONLY Hayley when her funeral is tomorrow. You are allowed to think outside of Hayley's memory.

I agree xxx
Be thinking of you xxx

[Glamoreyez]

Ahurani. You can't help but feel what you feel & want what you want. FWIW I think it's a really positive & encouraging thing to be planning for the future already. I know that you will grieve Hayley for the rest of your life, so don't feel guilty that you should be thinking of ONLY Hayley when her funeral is tomorrow. You are allowed to think outside of Hayley's memory.

Wishing you all my love in the world for tomorrow. Chin up! xx

What they said... Hugs...

[~Hestia~]

[Samcougar]

It's totally normal to feel like this hun, like everyone said there is no right or wrong way to feel. Huge hugs we'll be thinking of you tomorrow

[diannescruffy]

it's ok to be feeling like that hun and more for tomorrow.

Regards,
Dianne

[Kazbah]

I don't know if this is the right place to say this, but this poem I think says it:

"yet if you should forget for a while
and afterwards remember do not grieve
for if the darkness and corruption leave
a last vistige of the thoughts I had
better by far you should forget and smile
than remember and be sad"

Thinking of you tomorrow.

[snikkers1]