Sorry for your loss.

Kelly, I agree with you about making sure it is done safely. Although I am not sure yet whether co-sleeping will be for me, I do believe it may be the perfect practice for some people. I also read that it is important to consider how 'large' the parents are. If the mother is overweight, it may make it more likely for the baby to roll down, etc. I think the best thing to do about any practice, is a lot of research.