Thank you for all your suggestions! I am certainly feeling a lot better about my thoughts about what to do.

It means a lot to get feedback from people who have been through a similar experience. Sometimes I just feel I don't know what to do for her and I don't want to keep bringing it up every time I talk to her as I sometimes feel it is all we discuss! I think the year anniversary is an important, especially being around mother's day so I really want to make it.

Thanks again.