My OB gave me a choice of a D&C or to wait to miscarry naturally. However, I chose a D&C as the baby had died 2-3 weeks earlier and there was no sign of it passing naturally yet. I needed an end to the pregnancy iykwim?

My experience of the procedure was very positive (all things considered) and I found the emotional pain of the loss far worse than the small physical discomfort. I'm sure most OBs would respect your decision either way?