Thank you everyone for your stories. Wrangalove - you've helped me understand something I've been struggling to put into words. I've always had such faith in my body, with my first pregnancy and birth, and even with this conception - that my body knew/will know what it needs to do. All things being equal and barring an emergency situation etc, I just don't feel right interfering with this process. I have to ask the dr how safe it is for me to wait, and what the risks are.

And I am not looking to TTC again for a little while - my life, excluding this experience, is a big old mess right now and I have lots of work to do to get happy and healthy physically and emotionally. I know there is no baby now, my body took in those cells, so I don't feel as thought I am carrying my baby. I think when I come to the right decision, if that is to wait, I'll be able to handle it emotionally - even though I would prefer it happen sooner rather than later, I will be more at peace with that than going against my instincts for a d&c.

Thank you all again.