Hi all,

I have an appointment to see a specialist tomorrow to discuss my options - I have been monitoring a blighted ovum, and it's now at a point where the empty sac is measuring about 7 weeks, and I am about 10 weeks "pregnant". I have "known" that this pregnancy was non-viable since my first scan at 6 weeks, when the sac was measuring small and empty, but I have been waiting to be sure of the diagnosis.

I am expecting the doctor to recommend a d&c, and because I've been dealing with this in my head for a month, I do feel ready - if that's even the right word - to move past this and make a fresh start. But the idea of such invasive surgical intervention screams against all my instincts. As hard as it is, I feel like I want to wait for a natural miscarriage. Anybody have an OBGYN who was supportive of this - and was it the best choice for you?

I'm so very confused, but want to be somewhat prepared before I see the doctor tomorrow.

Thanks.