Thank you both very much.

She is normally a tough lil cookie who likes to deal with things on her own, I expected her to be quiet over the next few days but then shell call me when shes ready....but in saying that I dont want to just sit back and wait for her to call me. I tried to call her yesterday but no answer so i just sent her a text and said that I was thinking of her and let her know that I cared for her and that I was here for her.

I'll leave her be today but I'll try again tomorrow as its her birthday.

Yeah Tashy Thats what i thought too, there are no comments that will make anything better. But thanks so much for ur help