How long after a loss?

**~Hestia~** · April 23rd, 2013, 04:15 PM

I have been in limbo like this, it's frustrating and stressful

I'm sorry you didn't get a definitive answer

**Calluna** · April 23rd, 2013, 04:50 PM

hun.

**MumtoA** · April 23rd, 2013, 05:25 PM

Ah hun

its so incredibly frustating. I was on this rollercoaster recently and it can send you mad. My girlfriend told me to just keep focusing of the positive symptoms that i was pg - so i wrote that down and stuck it around the house. it reminded me that no matter what happened, at that moment despite being in limbo, i was pg and i had symptoms to prove it. I hope that things work out xo

**Catastrophic** · April 23rd, 2013, 05:37 PM

I'm so sorry Hun xoxox

**LysnDan** · April 23rd, 2013, 06:14 PM

Thanks everyone.

The doctors seem to think I ovulated a week later than I thought. Which now that I have sat down and looked at everything properly - it kind of makes sense. The wait continues. I have another BT on Friday and an U/S and a check with the dr on Monday.

For 5 weeks I thought my bloods were low at 453, but evidently they are within range??? So hoping they go up to be able to show something on the scan on Monday.

Out of respect for ladies who have previously experienced m/c& loss I wont be posting here unless I have confirmed m/c or otherwise.

Thank you all for your help and hugs.

I am so greatful for Belly belly... and the girls who are on it. You have all helped me so much. And I appreciate it so very much xxx

**LysnDan** · April 23rd, 2013, 06:14 PM

sorry double post xx

**TickToc** · April 23rd, 2013, 06:32 PM

It would be great if the dr is right & this is all just a little "misunderstanding"

I will continue to follow/(stalk) you as I would love to share your joy if everything turns out fantastic & I would also like to offer you my support & condolences if the pregnancy becomes lost.

**kerbear** · April 23rd, 2013, 07:16 PM

Hun I am sorry you are still in that unknown place, crossing my fingers that dates are just out and you have a sticky little bubba growing in there. Xo

**Mumma T** · April 23rd, 2013, 07:25 PM

Keeping everything crossed for you PP

**phebee** · April 28th, 2013, 11:39 PM

I've only just seen this and so sorry that you are on this awful journey PP! Praying for the best outcome, a healthy, sticky uterine bub! Xxx

**Calluna** · April 28th, 2013, 11:59 PM

Good luck tomorrow PP

**Mrs O'M** · April 29th, 2013, 06:42 AM

Thinking of you xoxo

**ladybirdflies** · April 29th, 2013, 01:41 PM

THinking of you today xx

**Mumma T** · April 29th, 2013, 01:43 PM

Hope it has all gone well today xxx

**kerbear** · April 29th, 2013, 01:50 PM

Been checking in on you, hope today has gone ok, thinking of you xo

**Mildez** · April 29th, 2013, 02:13 PM

I too hope you got some reassuring results xxx

**Calluna** · April 29th, 2013, 04:28 PM

Hope you got some good news today hun, been thinking of you.

**LysnDan** · April 29th, 2013, 05:11 PM

Nope. Not good news...

No baby or sac in uterus. Hcg up to 2350. They seen a mass on my right side near my ovary and they suspect ectopic (90percent chance) going for more bloods and another scan on Wednesday but they said they will probably be giving me methotrexate on Wednesday.