How Long before you TTC

[Deejoy17]

Sorry to hear of your loss Nae

I conceived in August 08 but lost the baby at 4 weeks, 5 days, I just had a feeling something was wrong, I went to my GP who said I had to wait 3 months before TTC again, if I conceive within that 3 months I`d be at higher risk of having a NT baby, I`d never heard of this before, I was in tears because I needed to TTC sooner then the 3 months as it had already taken us longer to fall pregnant then my previous 2 pregnancies after googling about this risk and posting here on BB I decided to go with my instinct and TTC (DH was also all for it) so that`s what we did, but we were seriously TC that month plus I came down with a severe stomach bug at O time so didn`t think I was in with a chance but I conceived that month and I`m now 21.5 weeks pregnant with a little boy

Good luck hun, do what you feel is the right thing to do

[mrzbaby]

Hi Everyone...
Well.... Today I feel a little bit stronger!
The weekend was plain horrible and between periods of crying and then just being plain emotionless I somehow managed to laugh for the first time. I nknew then that i could laugh again and that I would be able to get through this.

Last Monday ( the day our baby died) I was so stressed out at work. It was probably the most horrible day i had had at work ever. I don't know if this was the reason but stress can do things you never imagine. I am trying not to think why know but to just be thankful for those 3months I had with our baby.

I happened to stumbel across my clomid scipt whic started all of this. I had thought i threw it out( I don't 'O' very wells on my own maybe twice a year if I'm lucky!!). DH and I actually conceived our last baby on our own drug free. We were very proud of ourselves!!
I also came to the conlucsion that I do know I wnat another go at trying. I am not going to wiat till 16 weeks like we planned with our last baby but shout it from the roof and just plain enjoy it!!!!!!!!

I started taking my Blackmores conception vitamins yesterday, So now its just about trying to get my and DH healthy again and then try. ( not straight away but in a few months anyhow). There is oone thing playing on my mind and that is DH said that we would have one more go and if we are unfortunate that we not continue to try anymore...... He is completely shattered.
EM