Sorry to hear of your loss Nae

I conceived in August 08 but lost the baby at 4 weeks, 5 days, I just had a feeling something was wrong, I went to my GP who said I had to wait 3 months before TTC again, if I conceive within that 3 months I`d be at higher risk of having a NT baby, I`d never heard of this before, I was in tears because I needed to TTC sooner then the 3 months as it had already taken us longer to fall pregnant then my previous 2 pregnancies after googling about this risk and posting here on BB I decided to go with my instinct and TTC (DH was also all for it) so that`s what we did, but we were seriously TC that month plus I came down with a severe stomach bug at O time so didn`t think I was in with a chance but I conceived that month and I`m now 21.5 weeks pregnant with a little boy

Good luck hun, do what you feel is the right thing to do