Wow Girls I am so grateful to all of you for your replies!
I have made a decision....
I am going to do the Chemo and D&C. Believe it or not my DH said something to me this morning that actually made sense! (yes ladies miracles do happen! lol)
He said... "I think you should just have chemo and then (because of the risk with getting it back (accreta) ) just don't jump into TTC. Your only 26 Hon, and who knows if years down the track they come up with a cure for it or some way to make pg safe if you've got it. Wont you regret it if they take you uterus, then in say 5 years science comes up with something and your only 30 with no uterus?"

OMG Girls...I just stood there and stared at him for a while! Gobsmacked!

OK so if the chemo doesn't work I am still not going to gamble with them cutting up blood vessles in my muscle to get it out...Then I WILL just opt for the hysterectomy.

So lets just pray that this chemo and D&C works [-o<