I am so sorry you are going through this. It's horrible, and something nobody should ever have to endure. I have had two early miscarriages just like you described - the only relief was that the worst of the pain and bleeding only lasted for 1-2 days and then it was all over.

Menfolk deal with this sort of thing very differently to us. To DH, our early losses weren't real to him. He'd not gone through the physical sensations of early pregnancy, didn't KNOW that there was a baby... so as far as he was concerned, it was just like AF had arrived. The only difference to him was a little more grumbling about pain than usual from me. It's important to let him know that you are feeling sad, and don't appreciate the joking around, but it's just not possible for him to see this the same way as you... If I'd realised that earlier it would have saved DH and myself many arguments!

More for you.

BW