Hi Neenee.. Big Hugs, I am sorry for your loss.

My DH was the same when i had a missed m/c, we even had a preg test with a visable line, and celebrated a pregnancy til i started bleeding at 12 weeks. When i had an ultrasound it showed that the baby had stopped growing at approx 5 weeks and the Dr explained that it probably didnt get past the point where the cells divide... DH hears this so in his mind our m/c was never a baby. I had a D&C and to me o course i felt like i had lost a baby. It ended up being a huge turning point in our relationship because i allowed myself to be convinced that it meant nothing to loose this baby that "never was". It took DH and I months to get back on the same page and after counciling, DH admitted that it was his way of trying to make the pain easier for me. We had already lost a baby at 18 weeks and he thought if he could convince me that this m/c WASNT a baby it would be less painful for me. But as you know- whenever you loose a baby it hurts, and you need to acknowledge that loss and feel the pain together or else it will always be something that will come between you.

Sorry, now i am rambling... I wish you the best of luck trying again and i hope you get your BFP soon!! And good luck with the move- remember you can still try now- you will have 8-9 months to get your stuff together when you do get pregnant!!

Take care SB xo