..knowing a week ago that I'm pregnant, to going to the doctors and him saying that I've miscarried.
I've only known about this baby for a week, and it's broken my heart. As soon as they said 'Its likely you've miscarried' I just burst into tears + felt like wanting to hang myself.. I'm so lucky I've got the best partner in the world.
I went and had an ultrasound yesterday and they said that they couldn't see anything in my uterus, that there was no sac or anything.
I'm hoping that it might be because I got the dates wrong, and that it was too early to see, because I still got a positive test on Monday when I took that one, but I'm not getting my hopes up
Thankyou - I remember after the ultrasound when they said it was a suspected miscarriage just going numb, then when my partner came to the place where I was getting it done, I burst into tears as soon as I saw him
You see, me and my partner didn't exactly plan this one, and during the hassles I've been having with this one, he's said 'We'll be more careful this time'
After I went to the doctors yesterday, he's been saying 'I'm not going anywhere, there's plenty of time in the future that we've got to have kids.'
I think through all this, he's realised he does want to have kids with me, and so he's probably thought 'You know what? Whatever happens, happens'
It also doesn't help when he tells me that his ex-gf miscarried three times when she was with him, so that makes me feel even worse, because I wanted to be different this time.
I'll let people know what the blood test results are in and what they say
hi hun just wanted to say i am thinking of you at the difficult time and i hope it all works out for you i have my fingers crossed for you let us no how you get on.
Got the test results back and my hcg levels have halved, which is very conclusive in the fact that I did miscarry.
I'm utterly devestated, but life goes on
Its such a terrible time Lizjessie but it does get better trust me. You have lots of support here so post away when you feel down, there are always people here to listen and be a shoulder to cry on.
BTW like your name! My DD is called Jessica Elizabeth
LizJessie - I'm so sorry for your loss. It is a difficult time, but it does become easier to live with, and in time you come to remember your baby/pregnancy with a smile rather than tears As you say, your partner has now realised he does want kids with you, so if nothing else, there is a positive you can take
Post anytime, there's always heaps of support and understanding.
Sorry to hear about your loss. I find out tommorrow my Hcg levels because of "threatened miscarriage" too. I guess all you can do is keep trying. Good luck.
Sending you my thoughts and best wishes, yes BB is a great site to talk to others ladies (and men) who have been through the same thing or know of someone who has.
I hear what you are saying about this pg wasn't planned as we were in the same boat. I can't wait to TTC very soon.
Good luck and see you round BB..
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So sorry you lost your little one. Be kind to yourself and I'm glad you have such a wonderful partner to support you. You will find the ladies on this forum to be amazingly helpful and supportive.
i am so sorry to hear about the results i am sending you loads of :hugs: it is a hard thing to go through and the girls are right it does get easier but you will never forget you little baby. take care of yourself and remember we are always hear to talk to.
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As you say, your partner has now realised he does want kids with you, so if nothing else, there is a positive you can take
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