Hi Kim
thanks for your reply, with info re curettes. hopefully i won't need one now. when i read you've had 8 D & Cs already, i thought wow, what a strong woman! i am quite the wuss, and don't think i'd have it in me to keep trying. all the best for trying for your next bub - you certainly deserve it.
regards
Anne
aw thanks Anne! no way your a wuss, thanks for your encouragement as I am very very close to giving up, if it wasnt for finding this supportive forum I think I would I hope everything works out for you!