thread: Just wasnt ment to be

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    mummybec Guest

    Just wasnt ment to be

    Hi everyone. I woke up the other night to very heavy bleeding and raced to the hospital to find out I was having a miscarriage. If that wasnt hard enough my fiance has left me saying he was going to end the relationship not long before we found out we were pregnant yup real nice. Trying to keep it together here for my 2 other children which are not my exs.

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    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    6,900

    I'm so sorry bec, that is just awful. I don't know what to say other than you have all the support of everyone here on BB :hugs:

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    Registered User

    Jul 2007
    Central Coast NSW
    919

    Big hugs to you mummybec, I don't really know what to say but hang in there sweet xoxoxo

    There is lots of support here on BB and many of the ladies here have been where you are.

    Remember to take some time out for yourself.

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    Registered User

    Feb 2006
    Newcastle, NSW
    4,219

    Oh Mummybec :hugs:
    I am so very sorry to hear of your miscarriage.
    What an awful thing for your ex to leave you right now. Please know that there are many people on here who are here to support you sweetie.
    Lisa

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    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    on cloud 9.....
    2,105

    Oooh Bec, I feel so sad reading your post.. I really don't know what to say though.. I know m/c is hard enough as I have been through it a few times myself, but your fiance leaving, and now.. I hope that you have some family or friends that can help you through this tough time. Take care of yourself.. xx

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    Registered User

    Mar 2006
    4,542

    Oh Bec I'm so sorry for the terrible time you are having a the moment. Please take care of yourself and we are all here if you need us.

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    Registered User

    Aug 2007
    3,526

    Bec - thats terrible news - i hope you are doing okay -
    If you need to chat just remember thats what we are all here for!
    Take care of your self

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    Dec 2005
    not with crazy people
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    Bec honey - I hope that your other 2 children are alright with everything that is happening to their mummy right now. Loosing a child, no matter how far into this world they have stepped still brings a heavy heart. Try (as best as you can) to take time for you and your children right now. Concentrate on the three of you. Your fiance never really loved you if he said and did what he did to you. Im sure when you have healed that true love and happiness will be waiting with open arms. In the mean time, remember that we're here for you at BB when you need us.
    Take care

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    Registered User

    Aug 2007
    47

    Oh so sorry bec. You can talk about anything with the lovely girls on here, we are always here for you.

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    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2005
    Brisbane
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    Bec, i am so sorry to hear of your loss darl.

    Sorry to hear your ex has left you right now when you need him most of all. Your partner has gone and i know how hard this must be for you but please remember we are all here for you.

    Take care

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    Registered User

    Nov 2004
    Chasing Daylight...
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    bec I'm sorry for your loss. What a tough time you're having at the moment. I really hope some peace and joy returns to your life soon

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    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Pennsylvania
    473

    First of all, I'm so sorry about the loss of your little one. A big cyber hug to you. You need to be very good to yourself right now. And what an awful thing for your fiance to go and do! Be extra special good to yourself, surround yourself with people who love you and if you need to vent we're here. Good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers.

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