thread: Knew something was wrong...

  1. #37
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    Oct 2004
    Back in Brisvegas :)
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    {{{{{huggles}}}}}}} Tegan, I pray that the little bubba is a sticker and that this is all a false alarm. We are all thinking of you, and if you need to talk you know we'll always be here for you!


  2. #38
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    Feb 2005
    Mid North Coast NSW
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    oh Tegan - i hope you are OK

  3. #39
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    May 2004
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    Tegan i am praying for you that everything will be alright.

  4. #40
    kirsty Guest

    Still got my fingers crossed for you Tegan that it is just your body settling in to being pg. All the very best for tomorrow.

    Can I be a pest & ask what tests you are having done?? You don't have to answer if you don't want to.

  5. #41
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    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
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    Aww huni, you know my thoughts are with you.

    :hugs: for you & Jacob.

  6. #42
    Registered User

    Jul 2004
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    Kirsty, i am just having the beta HCG test...

  7. #43
    kirsty Guest

    Thanx for explaining Tegan, got my fingers crossed that you get HUGE numbers back.

  8. #44
    Registered User

    Jul 2004
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    Looks like i have lost the baby I did another HPT and it was a BFN. I've also passed some clots and my tummy is really crampy. I keeping looking at the 2 BFP i got last week thinking was i really pregnant? Or was i just dreaming it? But no, they still positive. I picked them both up and through them out the window, it felt good! I can't cry, i can't express any emotion and DF isn't helping either with his comments such as 'Nothing to get depressed about'... Thankyou to all those who gave me some hope. You really made these last couple of days livable...

  9. #45
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    Feb 2005
    Christchurch NZ
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    oh honey i wish i could do something to take your pain away - i know just how you feel - i still have the HPT's from when i was pg and i keep looking at them to know that it did happen - i know that right now it is so hard but you will come through this - and you have all of us here to support you if you need anything - are you still going in for a BT today?

  10. #46
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    Jul 2004
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    Yes, still having the BT, although i dpn't really want to as i know what it'll say and i know it's gonna hurt even more when the doctors says its negative...

  11. #47
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    Nov 2004
    Chasing Daylight...
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    Tegan, I'm so sorry that you have to experience this heartache. Thinking of you.

  12. #48
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    Feb 2005
    Christchurch NZ
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    it may not be - did you end up having a positive BT in the end? Sorry i have been out of the action for a bit and may have missed that - i know its hard and you really wanted this baby so much - i know you did. If you can't cry thats not a bad thing either it just means that it hasn't sunk in yet and you are in shock...which is understandable

  13. #49
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    Jul 2004
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    No i never had a positive BT, just the 2 positive HPT but yesterday i did another HPT and it was definatly a negative.

  14. #50
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    Feb 2005
    Mid North Coast NSW
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    Tegan - i am So sorry to hear

    i really was so hoping it was all going to work out for you. i dont know what to write to express how sorry i am to hear it.

    Huge hugs to you, im sorry your DH is not being the support you need either, i hope you have people around you who can help you at this sad time.

  15. #51
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    Apr 2004
    Sydney, NSW
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    Tegan,

    Just wanted to say how very sorry I am to hear your news.

    Take care of yourself matey, and hopefully Jacob will realise soon just how much hurt a lost hope brings.

    As hard as it is, stay strong, and hopefully you'll get the baby you crave very soon.

    Hugs++++

    Love
    Gabby

  16. #52
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    Oct 2004
    Outer Eastern Subs - Melb
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    ((( hugs ))) Tegan.

    My thoughts are with you honey. xx

  17. #53
    Senior Moderator

    Nov 2004
    Chickens.
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    Again, Tegan, and wish I was there to give you a real one.

    Words just don't come forth to tell you how sorry I am to hear of your loss. Please know we're all here for you, whenever you need.

    again.

  18. #54
    Registered User

    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
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    So sorry to hear your news Tegan.

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