so sorry for your loss,
I had a miscarriage three weeks ago, i was 9 weeks along but our first ultrasound showed us something was very wrong. I had the ultrasound on a monday and began to spot wednesday afternoon. As this was my first i was very scared and contacted the womans clinic where i had had the ultrasound, they said just wait and see and if the spotting gets heavier go to hospital. well thursday morning it all happened, nothing can prepare you for the emotion of seeing you lose your baby. My partner rushed me to the hospital where we waited all day for a ultrasound to confirm we had lost our baby. I was sent home as they all said it was a complete miscarriage so i wouldnt need a D & C. Last monday i became very ill and it was determined that i had a infection caused by product still in the womb, i had a D & C on tuesday morning and was kept in until wednesday morning. I had slight bleeding but nothing to serious. On saturday morning i woke to find heavy bleeding again, and returned to the hospital to be checked out. They couldn't tell me why i was bleeding again but gave me antibolics.
I am so disappointed the hospital didnt make me have a D & C while i was misscarrying as it just brings the loss but again and again.
But we are doing ok, it has been hard for me and my partner, but we are getting through it and we will try again as soon as we can.