and same to you too EM, there is nothing you can do or did do to cause the MC. I truly believe that it was your bodys way of saying things are not right.
This is TMI but I passed a gush of blood yesterday and I am feeling so much better ( no cramping now) so I am wondering if this is what they saw on the scan and has now passed. The bleeding has now pretty much stopped so I dont know if this is normal. I will see the doc today hopefully cause I couldnt get in yesterday.

My DF has been so good, I have been resting and you need to aswell.
I really hope things happen quickly for you. What I am really scared of is it happening again I dont think I could handle that. I had a MC 9 years ago,it was a shock that we where pregnant because it wasnt planned so when we realised i had had a mc we decided that it wasnt time to have another baby and waited about 2 years before getting pregnant again so this time to try straight away im so afraid ill have another MC.
How long have you been bleeding for? have you seen a doc?
keep positive and im hoping you can start soon