Lost?

[Hope.Positive.Love]

YES!!!! I feel the exact same way - I havent misplaced my baby, we havent put him down somewhere walked away and lost him - he died - the baby I was carrying has died ... i think for me i say we lost our baby becuase most people assume when you say our baby died - a think a lot would assume the baby was earthside living - whereas i feel from the moment of conception, from when the hearbeats, our baby is alive...

I am so glad someone put this up... We havent lost our babies, our babeies have died as that is extremely painful - it could even go as far as giving us hope, that our baby is 'lost' therefore maybe we can 'find them again... oh that just brought up too many feelings for me... sorry

[forshelby]

Families can be difficult to deal with. Most want to sweep your pain under the rug, not to upset you or isolate you, but to ease their own hurt and or discomfort with the intense nature of grief associated with the death of a baby. Sadly, the outcome is always the very thing your family least wants for you. I still struggle to find the words to comfort a grieving parent.

I'd like to share a song lyric which really speaks to me. "I mourn for those, who never knew you."

to all my kindred spirits

[Tegam]

I still struggle to find the words to comfort a grieving parent.

same here......