YES!!!! I feel the exact same way - I havent misplaced my baby, we havent put him down somewhere walked away and lost him - he died - the baby I was carrying has died ... i think for me i say we lost our baby becuase most people assume when you say our baby died - a think a lot would assume the baby was earthside living - whereas i feel from the moment of conception, from when the hearbeats, our baby is alive...

I am so glad someone put this up... We havent lost our babies, our babeies have died as that is extremely painful - it could even go as far as giving us hope, that our baby is 'lost' therefore maybe we can 'find them again... oh that just brought up too many feelings for me... sorry