Families can be difficult to deal with. Most want to sweep your pain under the rug, not to upset you or isolate you, but to ease their own hurt and or discomfort with the intense nature of grief associated with the death of a baby. Sadly, the outcome is always the very thing your family least wants for you. I still struggle to find the words to comfort a grieving parent.

I'd like to share a song lyric which really speaks to me. "I mourn for those, who never knew you."

to all my kindred spirits