really sorry you have to go throught his Cherpy75. I just had a D&C last week and feel that that was a better option for me as I dont think I could emotionally handle miscarrying naturally. I had started to bleed a day or so before the D&C but I just wanted to everything sorted out as limbo land sucks and I want to try again as soon as possible (maybe that is my way of dealing with it all). I was also a bit paranoid that it wouldnt miscarry completely and would end up causing more problems. Everyone deals with things differently.
It amazes me just how much we dont know until we have to go through something like this. Luckily we have BellyBelly.

Thinking of you and take care of yourself.