Hi Ladies

Forshelby - . I feel the same. You never think it will happen to you and then bam. You get through that and maybe had a baby and then bam another one. Very curel and it sucks.

Alison - to you. That is one reason why I don't join mothers groups, playgroups etc... Too much *****iness and competiveness. I can't handle it. And quite frankly can't be bothered with it. No one truly knows what you've been though until they walk in your shoes. She clearly has been bottling this up . If she had a problem then she should have spoken to you privately and with compasion. She sounds very insensitve. I'm getting your not 'best friends' with this woman? What is her problem?

In saying all that though maybe she has some concerns of her own? Maybe she has had a scare or something? I don't know. Just trying to look at boh sides of the fence.

I don't think your being over sensitive you are still grieving. I'd have been the same way. Except I probly would have told her a few choice words.

Kirley - Hi. Thanks for checking on us. I'm doing better. Hoping AF arrives in 14 days to get back on the IVF rollercoater. I hope things are well with you.