Welcome optimist and I'm so sorry for your loss. We wanted to get away after our loss too and we did. We took off up the coast for the weekend and it helped some. I hope you find the strength to heal and hopefully try again xx
thanks - helps so much to have supportive words. haha yes I did have a weekend on the coast but that wasn't enough! still want to get away completely, must be flight or fight syndrome.
Healing is the best way to look at it. Might go do something creative. Paint a picture or something :-) It'll take time ....
Sorry once again for your loss . I found talking about my loss was what helped me through the grieving process, it's hard going through all different emotions but please know it's ok, let yourself grieve, it's so important.
Oh thanks for the hugs and sympathy. It's amazing being in touch with people who have been through it before. Sorry I didn't respond earlier - I don't have a smart phone and enjoy being outdoors. This weekend spoke to a girlfriend who'd been through an abortion. It's only the people who have experienced a similar event who really understand what it's like, like you.
Others mean well but have no idea of the legit grief or depth of feeling women have for babies who aren't born yet. That's what I'm finding anyway.
... Thanks! ahh a monastery on the top of a hill in China would be great right now (to have my own space I mean)....
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... Thanks! ahh a monastery on the top of a hill in China would be great right now (to have my own space I mean)....
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