Jane.. after my friend lost her baby (@20w) yesterday i have now come onto these posts to read about how you get through this tough time and how friends/family can help. After my girlfriend yesterday and now reading your post has made me realise how lucky we are to get each day with our precious little angels inside us. I am at work and trying to hold back tears but i cant.. i am thinking of you during the extremely tough time and my prays go out to you and DP.