Welcome to BB, I wish you could have found us under different circumstances but we are glad to have you here.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, Ubba is right, it doesn't matter that bubs wasn't planned - it will not be any less loved, wanted or any easier to deal with the loss.
There is no need to be sorry, it is good that you were able to express your feelings - better out than in I always say.
I think the less said about your ILs the better lol. They do not sound like the type of people I would want in my life either...
All the best for your future and I hope to see you around the threads
i am really sorry for your loss . and i am sorry that you haven't found the needed support from those near to you; it's times like this that you just need a good strong shoulder that understands to lean on.
hi tms,
welcome to bb, and so sorry it had to be this way. sending you lots of hugs hun, so sorry for your loss of your angel baby, like a previous poster said, even if it was a surprise, as soon as one finds themselves with child, it becomes a reality and dreams and ideas are formed, you are fully within your rights to grieve for your lost hope.
keep venting and ranting, its good for the soul to just let it all out sometimes.
there are alot of girls on here from qld, hopefully if you stick around you will meet some fantastic people and they even have real life get togethers from time to time.
thinking of you xx
I just feel very selfish for complaining when I know others have it worse, I'm the last one to ever ask for anything but today it all just came crashing down.
and to top it off I just got the invite to my SIL's baby shower...hmmm i might give it a miss
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. and i am sorry that you haven't found the needed support from those near to you; it's times like this that you just need a good strong shoulder that understands to lean on.
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