Hi TooManyShoes,

Welcome to BB, I wish you could have found us under different circumstances but we are glad to have you here.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, Ubba is right, it doesn't matter that bubs wasn't planned - it will not be any less loved, wanted or any easier to deal with the loss.

There is no need to be sorry, it is good that you were able to express your feelings - better out than in I always say.

I think the less said about your ILs the better lol. They do not sound like the type of people I would want in my life either...

All the best for your future and I hope to see you around the threads