thread: my babies due date is today :(

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    my babies due date is today :(

    Not sure what i really want/need to say here

    My edd is today. I lost my baby at 10 weeks on new years day. I can't believe this time is here already. They would have been born today too, as both my children were born on their due dates.

    I had an awful nights sleep last night, felt like i was back at that day again. No one remembered that today was our due date. Do they? why do i feel angry that no one remembered?

    and i had to work in our business today, a cafe, and i felt awful but had to be happy.

    I'm so sad for any one who has lost, you are in my thoughts along with the beautiful babes that we miss so dearly.

    no need to reply, just had to say it out loud

    x madame x

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    I'm sorry so for you loss and that no one remembered.

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    I'm sorry madame

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    I'm so sorry you've lost your little one hun . I remember when my EDD came, no one remembered either, I was really really upset. Worse still, when my angel's 1st birthday came, no one except DF remembered. It really hurt as people were very supportive early after my loss but within weeks it fizzled out. I think it was partly because they thought if they bring up Joshua I would get upset (WRONG!!) and partly because they thought I got over it (WRONG AGAIN!!). For me also, the day of his EDD gave me peace, like it was the end of my pg, a closure for me, and it was time to sort of let him go. When I say let him go, I mean let him go out of my body iykwim. Big hugs lovely

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    Sep 2010
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    No advice or anything - just

    I'm sorry you're having a crappy day, its understandable.
    Just an idea, when my sister lost her first at 20 weeks, on her EDD she released balloons. Sort of a free-ing thing. It was great.
    Maybe you could do that one day?

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    I am so sorry for your loss and noone remembering. Its an awful lonely feeling

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    I'm sorry I didn't remember lovely - crap friend I am I'm shocking with remembering stuff - but I'm so sorry


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    Sending you love Madame. I'm sorry I didn't remember either, after you remembered mine too
    A friend once told me, when we lose a baby, that soul will always return to us, whether in the form of another pregnancy/baby, or other wise. Your beautiful angel baby is flying free in the clouds, and knows how much their mummy loves them.. Waiting for the moment to return to you and fill your heart with even more love. I love you Missy, youre such a fabulous person, I'm so sorry to hear of your shirty day

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    Sorry chick, I knew it was around now and we have chatted about it but I should have found out the proper date. X x

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    Massive hugs. Im sorry today was so hard and that nobody remembered.

    Im thinking of you and your sweet Angel today.

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    I have no words either just that I'm thinking of you.


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    so much love for you

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    sorry nobody remembered nobody remebered mine either not even df (but we werent sure of a date we were told a week i would have been due)
    lots of hugs