Hi Melody,

it seems you have found some peace with your decision.

i have to say that i really agree with rommy'smummy on the planting of something above the grave site. we did this when we lost someone special and knew that we couldn't bring them with us. in our case we lived in Nth Qld and planted a bird of paradise (as it can grow from cuttings) and when the flowers came through the following spring we took a cutting and now i feel that he has come with us as well ITMS.

hope you are doing okay, xx