I think that is one of the worst things that can ever happen to a mum

Your friend and her DP would be going through so much right now.

I think it is still very important to aknowledge the baby. Ask what she called the baby, bring a little gift for the baby. I know a very special lady in our BB group gave birth to her beautiful daughter who very sadly passed away and we bought her a beautiful rose plant in memory of her.

I wouldnt take your sisters baby in yet. I am sure your friend is feeling very raw and seeing a newborn when she should be holding her own would be quite hurtful.

You sound liek a loving friend