Thanks. I am so scared of a 3rd m/c too. Yes I will insist on testing. It must have been so difficult for you to be told she was perfectly healthy. Makes you feel like your body betrayed you. Thats how I feel and I dont even know why I m/c'd. Did they tell you she was a girl from the testing? Im not sure if I want to know the sex, yet at the same time it would be good to know for my piece of mind.