My poor sister is currently in hospital being induced after finding out that her precious little baby has died .
She is 28 weeks and is being induced today. She has asked for us to come and meet bubby which I am more than happy too. After all bubby is our neice/nephew regardless of anything.
I went to work last night and have got a few beautiful bubby outfits, some wraps and a croqueted blanket for her to dress bubby in, an outfit to be buried in and one for her take home as a keepsake. I've also got her a teddy bear to hold when she leaves hospital as no mum should ever leave with empty arms after giving birth.
It is such a bitter sweet day. My sister is able to become a mum for the first time but she isn't ever going to hear her baby cry, or watch him/her reach any milestones, sit by bubbys bassinette watching them sleep.
I am just devestated for her. No one should ever bury a child let alone one who hasn't even taken a breathe.
I'm just sitting here waiting for the phone call to say my beautiful neice/nephew has been born
I just don't know what to say to her - I know there are no right words

Thank you for letting me scream/cry/vent in such a safe place.