Not ok.

[RhiChiChi]

I'm sorry you feel alone and like no one IRL gets it. After all of my m/c I felt alone, like I was the only one that had been through what I had and everyone around me was still going on about their lives whilst I felt stuck, lost and lonely. Please know that the BB community is here for you. I wish I could tell you it is going to be alright, but right now it isn't & it won't feel like that for a long time. I am in Sth East Vic if that is near to you? Happy to meet up or help you out if you need it. ((hugs))

[OceanPrincess]

P, I'm due back at work Monday. A coffee or lunch might be good. I'll let you know.

Keep the prayers coming... I don't know what God's trying to tell us... But that's a whole different thread.

[peanutter]

whatever you like, hun xoxo

and prayers definately will keep a-coming ... this pain is not what He intends for you. Grief is natural and Jesus wept for his loved ones, but this nebulous loneliness and emptiness - that's not His desire for you. It will improve, and you will be healed.

I wish I knew some more scripture by heart, so I could put some here! Maybe some of the other ladies can assist.

[Ellie]

Oh sweetie I feel your pain ... Jer 29:11 has comforted me through years of heartbreak and questioning xxx

[diva det]

awww hun
ring me!!!
i do unfortunately know what you are going through
I am only a phone call away
as i have said before i dont want to bother you unless you want me to- my shoulder is here for you and waiting for you whenever you need it!!!
Just remember I AM HERE!!!!

[diannescruffy]

Massive hun,.

Regards,
Dianne

[Heaven]

Oh OP I wish there was something I could do.

[Kazzo]

[jacklicky]

OP, I do know what you are feeling. I had no IRL friends to help me either.....and it just felt like I was pressured to get on with life and suck it up....well that didn't happen!

Im glad your DH was able to come back and give you some comfort. I hope some of your IRL friends and family can step up and help you out.

Hugs......

[Jennifer13]

Oh OP..

A prayer your way that you get through each day as well as you can. I'm so sorry you're going through this. It sucks.

[sloane]

i'm so sorry you're going through this. it just isn't fair

i don't have a similar experience but i'm a good listener, i'm in the same city & i have broad shoulders that can take any weight you need to shift

[beckoes]

thinking of you!!!!

[Mumma T]

OP like RCC I am in Sth East Melb, and if you need someone I am more than willing to help where I can.

[Miss E]

So sorry that you're going through this hun. I don't have any words of wisdom for you, just lots of strong, positive thoughts which I'm sending your way.

[Babyluv]

Hugs hun,
I'm sorry you're going through this. You have so much support on here. I'm keeping you in my prayers! Hoping today the kids are kinder to you xx

[Diamond Girl]

OP, Im so sorry youre struggling. I know all to well the feelings you are going through. Its hard when no one understands, especially if they havent been through it before. Im sorry your parents wont give you some time out from the kids either. My parents work and it was much too hard for them to take any time off to help me when I needed help badly. My DH went to USA for work 4 days after my first D&C and I was a sobbing mess the whole time he was away. I know how hard it is OP and I only wish I could take your pain away

[Tegam]

Oh the raw pain in your thread. I sometimes wonder why I still come in here. Why I still read these threads, then I read one like yours, one where all the pain you try to bury comes flooding back. And I remember, I remember how much it helps to be heard by someone who just knows. For goodness sake I wish there was more we could all do for you.

I am so sorry. Pm me if you want my mobile number.

[~Gee_Whizzy~]

i'm so sorry you're going through this beautiful lady - i wish i had some words of wisdom, but i don't - just lots of these