Hi Naomi,
I know just how you feel - i lost my first baby 9 weeks into my pregnancy, but i was on the pill and didn't know i was pregnant until i found that i very obviously wasn't anymore.

It was very painful to come to terms with the pain of losing a baby while digesting the information that there was one in the first place. I felt like i wanted to trun back the clock and, even if the baby had to go, at least be able to enjoy a few weeks of being pregnant.

I cried for the baby i would never even be able to hold and say "i love you". This may not be much consolation (i don't know how many weeks along you were ) but after my would-have-been due date passed i began to feel much better. Also, though i have since lost another baby, i am glad that i know i CAN get pregnant even though i seem to have bad luck keeping them. I keep thinking, lots of women can't even get pregnant, and i feel that where there is life, even a tiny short life, there is hope.

My two angels were too good for this world and slipped off quietly, like yours, but they are with people that love me and them now, and i'll see them again one day.

With love and empathy...

Hana