As I just posted, my cervix has been high and closed... its now lowish, shorter, mushy, and i am bleeding a lot..... I am booked in for 7.30, to go in at 9.30 am, and they are making me stay overnight after the d & c which I really dont wanna do...

I have read a loss story on here, who birthed her 13 wk stillborn at home, and then went to hossy, and it sounds like something i would prefer to do.....I want to stay here, with my family, and not leave H who is still b'fed....

Is it ok to just stay here?? I might go all night yet, and still go up at 7.30 anyway, but if things progress quickly, could I stay home in my shower, get to hold my little one, and go to hossy later???

Man I hate this SO SO much.....