It sounds like she may need to speak with someone.... because what she is doing isn't normal, and it does seem like she is very much attention seeking, so I wonder if there is a reason for it. I had a friend like it at uni and in the end we got so tired of the "Crying Wolf" act that we no longer listened....eventually she realised that she was getting even less attention so stoppped the attention seeking actions
Maybe she doesn't really want to be pregnant but as her DH would love her to be, that she is "pretending" and then faking a MC so she doesn't have to keep up the lie as such. It is such a horrible thing to do, and I bet she really has no idea what it is really like to lose a child, because if she knew how painful it was she wouldn't be faking it.
I would probably step away form the relationship, as it would be likely that she would do it or lie about something else again, I would be hesitant in believing anything that she said after making two blatent lies.
Take care of yourself hun first and if you can find a way to help, know someone who may be able to talk to her, then do so, but I would step back from the situation so as not to cause you any further pain
This is your time, will be thinking of you as you approach Riley's First Birthday
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