Scrap everything I have said. Now my dp says he doesn't see himself wanting kids ever, but that if I fall pregnant he wouldn't ask me to terminate. Pardon my french, but WTF? The only way I will get pg is if we are trying.... and that can't happen as long as he says no. Why is he playing these games with me? He keeps changing his story. No, maybe, in 6 months, let's try now, and back to NEVER. I am so upset and angry.... I've waited 2 years, been with him almost 3 and now this? It appears I may have to walk away from a man I love dearly because he's far too busy thinking of himself to even consider my views on parenthood. For every positive view I bring to him, he has a way to shoot it down with his negative attitude. He's told me not to discuss it with him 'for a while' now. I don't want to wait quietly until it's almost too late. What am I meant to do? I am devastated, but can't even say so because if I cry then he'll be angry with me. I feel so broken. Don't know where to turn or which of his answers to believe. He says no, never, but if it happens (no idea how when I'm on bcp) he'll be excited. Games! Sick of it.