I know its not even been 2 weeks since Reid's birth and part of me feels guilty for even thinking these thought already

I want to try for another baby in February. That gives me 3 months to get my body back in order.

I'm not even sure where my cycle is at given the timing of thing but assuming that I get my bleed back 28 days after Reid's birth, I've worked out that if I concieve in Feb like I want to, the baby will be due on the 20th of November. 2 days before Reid's birthday.

From what I have read in books, when trying for another baby after a loss, you must avoid the birthday of your like that plague.

What's everyones thoughts on this?