I guess I dont really want the baby born on Reids birthday. The fact that its his birth day and the day he died I don't anything to take away from his special day.

I'm not really phased if the baby came within a week before or after his birthday just not on the day.

Its really hard to estimate without knowing when my bleed is going to come back and if its even going to be normal. So it seems kinda pointless even worrying about it but its something that I've been thinking about I guess.

Amelia was born 10 days after Ianto's birthday. In fact, on his birthday proper, I spent most of the day in hospital because she'd flipped breech and we had to wait to find out what our options were with that.

It didn't really bother me, having their birthdays so close. In some ways it makes me feel happy I have/had something happy around that time so I'm forced to not mope around, if that makes sense?
Thats perfect sense

This baby is due about 9 days after jacks first birthday. i desperately wanted to have birthed before his day, but my body didint want to play that game. for me it would have been having something happy around a time of such sadness.
i think its up to the individual, if you dont think you'd be able to handle it, then dont do it. if you think its something you'll be able to deal with then go for it.

its not an easy decision hun, here if u need to talk xxx
Thanks heaps hun
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