Thankyou all

Had a little chat with DP last night and now feel like a goose myself.

Apparently what he meant was something totally different. He had been going around all day thinking that he was king of the world and that the FS was totally wrong (he really doesn't like her much because she is very matter of fact about our fertility issues) and he was very excited that we didn't have to go back and see her again.

So he came home chest all puffed out ready to say "see I told you - my boys may be a small, lazy and disorganised army but they can still get the job done" and absolutely didn't mean to turn it around onto me but that is just the way it came out.

Turns out that I still love him and I may just keep him afterall