Oh Taffy i'm so sorry for your loss , and also for the comments that would have cut so very deeply at such an emotionally charged time, I'm sure he did not mean for it to be so matter of factly in your face like that, ( you don't have to read any further if you don't want to ) but i had similiar comments from my DH and maybe this has been playing on his mind although not the most appropriate time to bring this discussion up .if he is anything like my partner and bottles up his feeling s i think it now gives you an oppurtunity to bring DH feelings to the surface and deal with the loss and fertility issues all in one go that way when your ready to TTC again your both on the same page so to speak again i'm sorry hugs to you both