I think I know what you mean about the high. I experienced something similar, I think, after passing the placenta and sac with this last miscarriage. (I don't think there was anything identifiable as baby at that point - the baby stopped developing quite early on, though I carried the pregnancy until 10 weeks.) And I know what you mean about the hurt - a friend posted a pregnancy announcement on facebook, with ultrasound pics that were the same gestation that I should have been when I went for my dating scan that told me there was no baby. Their pictures of course had a baby on them. What I saw on mine was empty. I'm happy for them, but it still brought some tears... We haven't told many people about this, because we weren't (aren't) ready to talk about it with everyone yet. It's nice to have BB to share experiences!